I can only speak for myself. I really enjoy helping people out. However, if you ask for my help on the raid and i bring 4 of my friends in to get you and your buddy through it and none of us can get anything because this is like the 5th time through helping people...don't waste my time! I expect you to die a lot since you're a lower level. I expect you to take some time to explore since you've never been here. I do not expect that after 3 explanations and 45 minutes into the atheon fight for you to say "wait, what am i supposed to be doing?" Almost the same circumstances, i dont expect you to get off of the mic and go afk for 5 minutes without telling anyone during atheon and then spend the next 20 minutes whining that you're screen is black and you don't know what to do. You would know if you'd been part of the team, and you would have found out after if you literally shut that useless hole in you face for 2 minutes so we could explain it for the 4th time! I've had more good groups i helped through than bad ones. Those 2 unfortunately are the most memorable. I still like helping people, but only if they respect the fact that i'm helping and it's not okay to waste my time due to negligence. We don't have to speed run, you don't need to have as many kills than me, but you do need to pay attention and make some kind of effort to contribute to the team.