You do realize that earning the marks in crucible, the coins from the strikes, motes of light from decrypting things is earning them. So you do earn some things, You are not meant to have to earn every little thing just so some people can feel happy because it is fair in their eyes. It is not meant to be the same for everyone. It is not meant to be fair for everyone. That is how rng works. and yes it is fair that it works that way.