Funny thing... I haven't had random invites really and I am level 30. I wear my armor proud at the tower and sometimes get an inspect. But I also have a level 25-27 (depending on the armor I'm wearing) character and I get the crap spammed out of me!!! People are funny that way I guess... or maybe its because I'm a girl and people don't think I am legit? Personally I am perfectly capable of pulling my weight. All my friends that need help ask me all the time to backpack them and I am always willing to help, but I don't like being taken advantage of every week. I hate that I sometimes have to hide offline from my friends. I think about when I got the game how hard I had to work to level up not only 1but 2 characters. Why can't people do it themselves? I did it on my own. Sure I had help from friends, but we were all the same level and were all struggling together and having fun doing it. Now it feels like work. I feel like I am so busy with some of my friends (beggars really lol) that I don't have time to do the things I want to do. I'm not a hater to anyone, but honestly, sometimes I just don't have time for people. I enjoy playing the game and I WANT to have fun, not backpack or grind for someone else.