I indeed am a man. And I can't be defensive about something I don't share... Cause I never play as female, you know. I just don't like it. I'm just curious about why people get so disturbed by it. Also, I'm do not own any pink lacy underwear, but I wouldn't say no to it... if it was in black and fitted me. Like, you know, there's nothing wrong with lacy underwear. Idk.