To answers YOUR question... We live in an age where people are trying to cope with gender identity and orientation. Genetics have not been good to us because of how biology works. Not every man is a large, 6 foot behemoth with five o'clock stubble that makes even other straight men jealous of his rugged good looks and "Man's Man" charm. Not every woman is a petite waisted 5'2" beauty with perfect bust to butt ratio. Why do I bring this up? Because subtly is a dead art lying in a grave alongside investigation. There is a search bar in the upper right corner near the sign in button. You can search for these topics without starting your own yet we get a new one every time someone must absolutely ask the question. As for the question itself, we are encouraging people to be open about who they are but the internet hasn't seem to catch up with that mentality yet and is a breeding ground for people to speculate and insult people in the process. [quote]I suspect you are a man wearing pink lacy underwear right now as we type...[/quote] Case in point, you. Gay men make me nervous and I won't shy away from admitting that. But you don't see ME posting a new topic every day asking why would you be attracted to another male because it creeps me out. What makes me nervous is being included in something I have zero interest in being involved in but otherwise, let them do what they do. Hell, some of these posters probably think it's funny to post the same question over again trying to get a rise out of annoying the community over a question that's already been asked a dozen times.