You know what bud? i was in the same boat as you. I had maybe one friend on ps4, and i had no games and no online capabilities. but having played both the xbox one and ps4 extensively, I can give you my honest opinion: PS4 is a smoother console. I've had few problems or errors, and rebuilding a firends list took me a week or two, but im better friends with anyone on my ps4 friend's list than the people I actually know and talk to who play on xbox. It really is up to you, but coming from a previously HUGE xbox fanboy, i honestly do believe that the playstation 4 is a better console to be on right now.