[b]Doc's Guide To Men's Standards In Relations[/b] Well, first of all, the girl has to have standards almost as high or as high as the male. She must carry herself as high as she feels. She cannot be a floozy. (Slut) She must know how to have fun, but also have a limit and know that limit. She must not have a TON of guy friends even if she says: "But girls are such drama queens" because you're a girl too. You don't need 105 guy friends and 2 gal friends. It's just not right and jealousy mode will kick in no matter what. It's just male instinct to protect what's his. She must share at least a quarter of the interests the guy does. People say if you like too many of the same things, the relationship gets boring, but that's untrue. If you have many things in common, you have more to talk about. She must believe she is beautiful, because in the male's eyes, she is. She must know how to love generously. This is important. Most girls don't realize this and that is 99.9% of the reason guys who aren't just in it for the sex cheat, because they don't feel enough love coming from their other. She must realize that the guy will check up on her whether he trusts her or not because he is just as committed if not more than she is. She must be willing to let the male enjoy his hobbies regularly. Yes, this means video games. If you don't like them, learn to or don't be with the guy. She must understand that the male isn't always going to want to do what she tells him. It's not always about what you want. He has wants and needs as well. She must realize that the male is not a money tree. Don't ask for gifts 24/7. That's all I'll write for now. Agree or disagree. Hate or don't hate. These are my standards.