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This seemed to be the best place to reach out with a question like this. My wife doesn't play games such as destiny. She's more into the "just dance" and "super smash bros" crowd. In her eyes, every moment I spend gaming is a moment I don't get with her, even if she's sleeping. I find myself scheduling my gametime after the test of the family has gone to sleep, and my normal sleep rhythm had gone to pot as of the last couple weeks. I have no more candle to burn. So after reading a thread here about managing game time, I'm now reducing the time I spend each day playing to completing the daily, weekly heroic/nightfall (if not done), and some farming to level up my gear. I wanted to say hi and thank this group for helping me mature a little more as a gamer.
One final note, I have a good raid crew, but sadly we have yet to kill atheon. So while we may not have completed the raid, I'm willing to help out when anyone needs a +1 for most any event. Psn:Coedbeast (ps3 only)
Happy hunting guardians
Edit: I realized I never asked my question. Any suggestions on how to approach my wife about the game?
Edit 2: such wonderful comments. I have some ideas on what to do now. Thanks for the help. Nice to know there is a great bunch of gents here willing to help. Look forward to playing the game with you all. Well, all you ps3 users anyway.
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While none of us are certified Married Counselors, at least not to my knowledge, issues of this nature can be relatable which a great many of us. A balance of me time, and family time can be tricky sometimes, but is not impossible. My only advice is to try and include her in your gaming when possible, whether it be you playing more with her, or you trying to get her into what you're playing. Let her try some missions for you, maybe that'll peak her interest. Gaming is a fun hobby, but should not come between a family. In all honesty, if no compromise can be found, there may be more issues involved, and professional help might be beneficial. Good luck gents...! : )