I too hate pvp but when needs must I bite the bullet (pardon the pun) and play crucible -i wanted thorn played crucible, I wanted ib gear I played ib. I ain't good by any stretch however just by playing ib I managed to get the achievement for 100 crucible marks in 1 week and this is something I never thought I would get! Just Try all the difference game modes then stick with the 1 that u feel most comfortable with