I'm sorry, but I must have missed in his post where he said he left those groups. I see a lot of bitching about people wanting to cheese, though. I haven't had a problem making friends (randoms, even) with which to do raids without cheesing, but perhaps the OP does not have much luck in that area. Maybe the OP should focus on making friends with 5 people and have a solid raid group that wants to do it the same way as him.