I reserved 2 copies of Destiny for my son and I (he is 10 almost 11) before the release as well as dlc. Hoping this would be a game we both could play for years together. We allow him to play any teen rated game and some mature (ie Borderlands). He hasn't played Destiny as much as I thought he would. He does have other games he is currently playing where I am focused on Destiny. We both have headsets but only use when running together or with friends. Even I refuse to use chat when soloing. That includes running crucible, random strikes or at the tower. Unless you are on my friends list (which includes DoD members) I don't voice chat or accept game invites. My son will solo crucible as well, he is better at it then me. But he to doesn't use voice unless running with me or friends. I just don't want to hear some kid or ass**** cussing or saying how better they are. I play for fun and enjoy the game and want to keep it that way.