Not sure if you are still looking, but first step find the group in DOD for PS3 players. Join the group start using the forum. On that forum you can post playing times and what you are trying to accomplish( bounties, crucible, daily, strikes, weekly, raid) you get the idea. Adding your current level and class is helpful to pair up with like minded goals. It really took me all of a couple hours when I first joined DOD to find my XB1 group and then the clan that I run with DOD SHIELD. Since that day my friends list of active Destiny players has over flowed with invites and raids and fire teams. Worse case scenario trade in the PS3 for an XB1 and DOD Shield players will get your back...LOL Hope this helps you find the right guys to team up with, I liked Destiny before but I love Destiny now that I am surronded by the right group of guys to share it with.