Let me tell you a story. In the beginning God created everything. He is infinite, so our finite minds can't understand him. He is creator of all, so he demands worship from us. After all, we wouldn't exist if not for him. Then something bad happened. His crown creation all achievement did exactly what he told them not to do. Fast Forward, and you have his son dying for us, taking the all the bad things we've done, are doing, and will do. He was so covered in it, that his own father couldn't look at him because of all the nasty disgusting "bad" that we are capable of, and that he is holy, which means he is the positive side of the magnet to what "bad" (sin) is to the negative side of the magnet. Because his son sacrificed himself for us, and rose again (many people have first hand accounts of this if you don't think he did) and created a bridge. We have a choice now, and it is ,whether or not we cross that bridge. As Christians we are commanded to be selfless, to love others, and love God. There is more to that, but those two things are the basics. When a Christian does "bad" (sin), no matter what it is, they must repent (confess and change) this is the road that leads to heaven. No other ways can. Jesus once said "I am the way, and the truth, and the life, no one can come to the father except through me." Being good is not something you should try to do. When you are a Christian doing good becomes second nature. No one can enter heaven by being good, you can only enter heaven by following the one that laid down the bridge to leave our side of a chasm of sin. To walk safely across the pit of eternal damnation, and to reach the side of holiness. We can get there, and we can still do bad. But how we handle bad, whether by giving indifference, or changing towards Christ, will determine if we go to heaven or not. Now I know that was a lot. But I want to let everyone know this truth. I don't want anyone to go to hell and not heaven. But the truth of the matter is, because God is so loving, he wouldn't force people to go spend eternity with him if they didn't even want to spend a couple decades with him. That's it.