Well im semi attractive and have had success in the past and rejection and im not afriad of either. Secondly if she shows interest, which I can get any hint like a look or body language ill make a move. Depending on the girl you could compliment her or ask her if she wants to get high. Again I've had success with both and all kinds of drugs. Thirdly if I've done any of those and she's still next to me its safe to say she's into me and I flirt more openly. Get my point across. Here's the scenario. Take date out flirt a little show interest but still be a little reserved. You got side bitches if this falls through. I ask her some small talk questions and through in my favorite line. You may think its cheesy but dont knock it till you try it. I ask "are you a good kisser?", but like a serious question just like I ask where she works or where she is from. She usually get all giggly because she was thinking the same about you but she is to afraid to say it. So now your making out in the booth at the bar and having drinks. You walk down to the beach its night time down from the bars. I live in florida so this is convenient. Out on the beach you keep making out tell her you wanna see how it fits. Now, if she is really into you you get to whip it out and at least get some head. She will let you put it in and thats how you let her know, you are really "into" her. Thats how I got my last std. I got more story's like this if you really need more advice.