Should I get help. I know the possibilities and what is most likely...actually I'm clueless as to what would likely happen. I want to just be friends right now but I get a little nervous just thinking about talking to her because I dont how she would feel about it now and I don't want her to hate me if she thinks I'm trying still. My main goal at the moment is for her to not hate me but for us to still be friends. Kind of strange to be talking to someone you turned down right?