Had a group of 6 random guys waiting for a Destiny raid (I used to play that a lot, had over half my friends list inviting me to it) and those guys invited me randomly to a party. 6 Guys together inviting one grill, none of them got the story straight when I asked them all. They all said varied levels of "We can't text it" but obviously didn't get the story straight other then don't tell her. You can guess at their intent.