My wife tolerates my gaming hobby as long as I still show her attention and help out around the house. It's a balancing act and lately I've not been good about it because I've really been getting sucked into Destiny. Still, she knows it's good for me and helps me relax and de-stress. By that same token I don't give her a hard time when she wants to go to the gym or running. So I think we do a pretty good job of respecting each other's "thing" but just need to make sure they don't become too consuming.