If you have to seriously ponder breaking up with her for destiny then you probably should. I got crazy lucky with loot in the past month:hawkmoon icebreaker and gjallarhorn all in one week. But I was playing too much and not showing my gf enough attention or affection. Since then I have quit playing except for the Tuesday reset and early in the mornings before she wakes up and I have never been happier. She is much happier as well and "returns the favor" if you know what I'm saying. We live together and it's been a year this Friday. I had to face this decision as well and I came to the conclusion that if I tell this girl I love her than I owe her all of me that I can offer. If you're having a debate within yourself between a girl and destiny, and your seriously considering picking destiny, then do it, if she loves you she will either deal with it or just move on and you can both try to be happy.