Couple things here, feel free to disagree on any of it....... If you ain't spending any time with your girl, it's over unless you shape up and treat her right. If your going to a game forum for an "ask Abby" corner, things are probably further gone than you think already. If your literally spending all your free time on the game, ya might want to take ask step back, if not for your girl for your own damn health. Also, if it's real, a girl would never make you give up a hobby (as long as it's not taking all your free time)