You joking? lol... I'll bite. You say it is selfish of your girlfriend who wants to spend time with "YOU", yet you scrub her and choose to spend every last moment playing Destiny, to the point of not sleeping? I don't call your girlfriend selfish, I call you selfish... You come to Destiny forums asking for advice? man the -blam!- up and sort your priorities out... Take a break from gaming, smash the ass of your girlfriend (you know, in the get your dick wet kind of way) give her the attention she needs, instead of wasting your life and your relationship on a game!