1st you dont need to give up playing for a few months just cut back on game time 2nd Sounds like she is worried about you and your health because you dont sleep and keep playing 3rd from this "choose between her and work or destiny" tells me you would rather have a game , that isnt even that good, then a job (which you need to support yourself unless you want to go live in mums basement for the rest of ur life) and a chick who cares enough about you to actually love you. 4th in my opinion the fact that you came to a bungie forum to ask a stupid question like this tells me you dont have a lot going for you