First if all its not about hiding its about having fun and what makes you happy And although its prob a story made up for comedy value i have met quite a few girls like this with ultimatums .. And frankly thats bs Whether it be stop gaming or stop weekly poker night with friends you should never have to stop anything u love doing. As long as you have money in the bank a good job date night at least once a week And a healthy sex life you can do whatever makes you happy as long as it doesn't negatively impact your life Any sort of ultimatum is not a healthy relationship And being a social worker i see many of these and its usually about control.