So my girlfriend gets pissed when I come home from work and play until I gotta go to work the next morning... So I don't sleep anymore at all, I really don't wanna miss out on any Loot, so I spend all my hours spare grinding Phogoth strike over and over... But I need advice she seems pretty pissed lately and acting as if I must choose between her and work or Destiny! It's pretty selfish of her IMO. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend or give up playing for a few months....
Please reply with some advice fellow Guardians!
Thanks
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Tell her that she is important to you. Tell her that you will quit your job, and you will only play while she is at work. The rest of the time will be divided up between her and sleep. Of course, tell her she needs to get a second job because with her current one job, she can't support both of you. This will give you plenty of time to play. Ideally, she will get two jobs at 8 hours each, with about an hour and a half drive time. This will give you 17 & 1/2 hours a day to play. When she gets home, give her all the attention she wants before she passes out from exhaustion. Make sure you cuddle her to sleep. From the time she gets home to the time she falls asleep after a 17 & 1/2 hour workday, probably about 30 minutes. After she falls asleep, you can go back to playing. When her alarm goes off, go make her breakfast and kiss her goodbye, tell her you love her and hope she has a good day. This method should give you about 22 or 23 hours a day to play Destiny which isn't ideal, but you gotta make some sacrifices here, bro. Don't shirk on that time you need to give her. It's possible that she might get a day off from time to time, or only work one of her jobs in a day while she has a day off at the other one. This might sound like you will have to spend more time with her, but on these days just draw her a bath, get her something nice to eat, and then cuddle her to sleep and let her sleep in. She will probably be so tired that she will sleep a lot, which will give you Destiny time. I say at worst, you shouldn't have to spend more than 4 hours away from Destiny in a day, and on good days, you should get about 23 hours and 15 minutes or so.