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Edited by Rodttor:
1/21/2015 7:40:36 AM
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What should I do? (Girl troubles)
<This is probably the weirdest place to post this, but it says 'off-topic' so here I go>
SO this girl and I have been pretty great friends for like 4 yrs. I always helped her with her BF problems and she helped me with my personal problems. We got pretty close and we always hangout. During May - July 1st of last year (2014) her and I had a thing going, we kissed a lot, cuddled, basically couple-like things. But we weren't really an official couple. But one day, she told me she was scared that if we continued and became an official couple something bad would happened our relationship would be ruined and we wouldn't be able to be friends. I was pretty sad about this but to not sound like a desperate guy, I agreed. Then the rest of summer her and I didn't talk as much as we used too, i could tell things had gotten weird. But luckily one day we hung out and things felt back to normal once more! So we are back to hanging out a lot and messing with one another like old times. So I feel like she is starting to like me again and ended up being right, because one day in November her and I kissed and its been happening through November to December. But now once as I feel as if she and I are finally gonna be something, like an a official couple, some guy shows up and ends up catching her eye, I could tell she like him, but she liked me too, but was scared to screw things up with me, so she ended up going with that guy. Now I'm pretty sad, her and I are still friends,but I still real I like her. Should I stop pursuing her? What should I do?
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If she's complicating things then you need to uncomplicate them. Your relationship is most likely being ruined more by that than it would be by a possible break up.
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1 ReplySorry to break it to ya but you need to move on. This might sound a bit harsh but to me it sounds like you're her rebound.
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1 ReplySound like a bunch of 13 year olds,
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If they break up ask her out (like a month later) be there for her, don't be afraid of the future, if you two have been good friends than you have no reason to fear a bad relationship!!! Just do it!!! -Nike
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4 Repliesanyone else sensing the plot to forest gump here?
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1 ReplyI swear more and more posts like these are showing up every day..just ask her out fgt
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Wait for them to break up. 2 weeks max.
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1 ReplyChrist, you two are worried about making it "official"? What the fu[i]c[/i]k does that even mean? Just ask her out.
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Ha! Go -blam!- yourself.
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Cash out, next casino.
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There's no gray area here, no in between. You either need to go for the bang or stop talking to her entirely. If youre really good, you can do both. She's probably moved on because she's looking to bang more and kiss and cuddle less.
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Damn at that point I wouldn't even try and I'd just ignore the shit outta her and make herself feel bad and just move on
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Sorry man, but it sounds like you need to distance yourself from trying to get into a relationship with her.
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2 Replies[quote]Girl troubles.[/quote] Than I feel bad for you son.
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Edited by Abe: 1/21/2015 12:41:39 PMTell her you want to be her boyfriend and that the other guy is a fgt. Then if he wants to fight you, cockslap him to assert your dominance.
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Ask her out. Do it. If you're as close as you say you are it shouldn't affect much if she says no. Trust me. I did the exact same thing I'm telling you to.
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Pull the trigger or move on. Seriously that easy. Ask her out for real if it -blam!-s up it -blam!-s up or move on, it's really not rocket science.
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How big are her tits?
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Cut your losses. She had her chance to be with a top bloke. If she is seriously considering another guy over you, then you should [i]not[/i] date her.
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Stop before you hurt yourself any further. Trust me I share something similar to this.
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friendzone
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My opinion? It's a waste of time.
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2 RepliesThis is truly a waste of time for u. U are the backup plan or plan B if you will. Let me ask u this, do u find it fair to be treated that way? The answer should be no if it isn't. I am not trying to be a dic here but this bullshyt happens time and time again. U aren't the first and won't be the last. Let her find another putz. Don't waste ur time, find someone worth ur time.
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1. Stick it in her envelope 2. Toast/Pooper 3. ??? 4. Profit?
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5 RepliesEdited by EE: 1/21/2015 6:11:22 AMYup, don't pursue her for anything more than a friendship. I know that's not the answer that you'd like to read. She takes you for granted, so don't put effort in.
