All posts are neglecting the intimacy factor. I switched sexy times to mornings so I can play at night. Works so well she could be studying her Accounting degree in the same lounge room and not make a single cynical comment. Except for "you're such an effing nerd sometimes", when I chat to others. She laughs but I know she means it ...sigh I do loose sleep though. Especially with a 5 month bubba.