You'd be surprised at what a decent mature woman would want... Trust me.. If you aren't willing to take the risk of rejection then you are in fact not good enough. Love is a risk.. Is she worth it.. If yes go for it.. If she rejects you so be it. Even if you aren't confident. Show confidence. (not cockiness) a woman wants at least 3 of 5 things.. Do 3 and you can get almost any woman. 1. She wants to feel beautiful. Make it happen. No lies. No fake. No manipulation. Be genuine and honest. 2. she wants to feel secure. She wants to know that you can be a foundation if she needs one.. Responsible and accountable. 3. Just listen and remember. Don't pretend to listen. Remember the little things. Show that you care about even the most trivial things... Genuinely remember her likes. Dislikes. Hobbies. It's not always about you. 4. Pride... Not the bad cocky side.. The self confidence. And the feeling that you are proud of her.. That you aren't ashamed of her or self loathing. Make her always feel that she is amazing in your eyes. 5. Love and respect. A women wants to feel loved... And respected.. One of the hardest and most vital... Alot of women have insecurities no matter how beautiful or amazing they are.... You need to daily.. Show them just how beautiful and amazing they are.. How loved they are. Have a genuine respect for her.. And let her know that she is your Queen. Treat her like a queen and a good woman will make you a king.. This is my one tip for the day.. If I get hate for it.. So be it.. But this has always worked and I rarely ever share this... Alot of guys. Need to learn how to treat women. And a lot of women need to learn to do all of this to themselves.. Just remember. Don't ever settle.. Be the best to deserve the best.