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I have been with DOD since launch of the game. It's been great to play with a group of guys that understand that some times things come up and you have to go. Bungie made a game that forced me to make friends and I thinks that is one of the best parts of this game. DoD set up a group of like minded people which makes everything easy. And group that will always help each other out. I have to thank you for creating DOD. It's been a wonderful experience.
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Dod to me has been a lifesaver. I gave up on playing with others because of harassment and random people not understanding married life and fatherhood duties. Recently my wife decided she was done with me. I totaled our only car. After getting us both vehicles and her leaving, I was laid off from work and burned my left hand 2nd degree. Now I can't find a new job and unemployment has denied my first two weeks of benefits. Without the support kind words and understanding of my fellow clan members I would have given up long ago...video games are my stress relief the guys from DoD Arc are my family. I would also probably be homeless soon, they decided to start a gofundme account to help me get back on my feet while my hand is healing. A couple members of Arc had run into financial problems, one was going to run out of xbox live gold.....the others internet was going to be shut down........the guys in Arc pulled together and helped these guys keep playing. Exceptional people and I am greatly honored to be counted among them! This brotherhood that started from a forum post is the one of the best things I stumbled across before the beta started. Great people come together to help each other out.
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Im going to be honest i have only just discovered this group. But from what i have seen you are an amazing group who all look out for each other in the verse and in real life to. I love the fact that everyone in this group is on the same page as me when it comes to family and gaming. I hope I get to know some of you as time goes on and we play together
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My daughter is now 24 hours old :-) and I can't be more happy. Any tips or advice? I just wish there was more I could do to help my wife and stuff. I'm still in the hospital and can't leave till late this evening.
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Dagnome here, founder and returning member of DoD Legends for the Xbox One. When I made the Legends group for the xbox community flying the DoD tag it meant a few things to me. I was creating a place where fathers could come and enjoy eachothers company while playing a game they enjoy playing. Being a member of DoD tells everyone that you have priorities, family and life come first and every member of DoD shares this common ideal. We are not a place for commercial or personal gain, we are not a place that makes gaming into a chore or a requirement. Dads of Destiny I feel, as a whole, needs some redirection in our thinking. Since returning, I have heard of and seen, some things that make me question if the DoD as a whole has forgotten their roots. I was in DoD when we were less than 100 members, before the big community spotlight, back when we held those values of being a father first above everything else. While I cannot speak for the rest of the DoD clans, I know that I will help keep DoD Legends down the path of our core DoD values. TLDR: DoD means being a father first, putting family and life before gaming and being part of a community that understands, supports, and enforces these ideals as a group.
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This game and the DoD community have basically become an extended family. I joined roughly a month after I got destiny and found my way to DoD. I actually found DoD through a female non member that had befriended some DoD guardians. I joined and almost immediately I found a few dads that got my play style and they were and still are great, djbeatright is among some of you who I call friend. The DoD website is also a great creation. I created a clan and finally got enough members to get registered. The few members that we have are awesome. We actually met up this last Saturday to tackle the CE raid. We made it to the death singer but she killed us and we ran out of time, but none of us cared. We were having too much fun playing the game with each other. I think the most amazing thing I have seen in the DoD community is character. There was a guardian a little while back that fell on hard times and he appealed to the clan at the urgings of kingpin2, a great guy in my opinion. To my surprise, perfect strangers came to his aid, some not even in the same state. The only other place I've been around this type of brotherhood is the military. This is a great group and I'm in for the long haul. Keep fighting guardians, online and in life. Wait a minute, it's still moving shoot it again!
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KP, First off thank you for starting this whole revolution. As for what DoD means to me........ I joined back in Early Nov and this group has been much more than gaming. Since I've joined I had a lot of change in my life some good and a fair amount of bad. The clan I found through DoD and this group as a whole has helped me get through the rough patches. Whether its just reading the forum to laugh a little or finding some true friends who I game with every week. It has been a great experience. This place is like a safe haven. Prior to finding this group my entire friends list on Xbox consisted of my oldest Nephew. Now I couldn't game by myself if I wanted to, no matter the time of day.
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This group seems amazing. The fact that no matter the game or difficulty level, life and fantasy have a real shot to coexist. I just joined today. I have been reading through comments and posts to get a feel. The amount of support is shocking. Just feeling like I can relate to the struggle of juggling two lives. Being a father, husband and gamer is difficult. Having to drop the controller anytime, crota or atheon and knowing that the 5 other guys will understand and keep the game alive until or even if you return is cool. I have been turned into a lone wolf gamer simply because of those facts. Learned to solo CE because of the lack of empathy. I am on the edge of my seat for house of wolves, battlefront and the division. Cannot wait to get a piece with all of you. Best group of people I have never met but wish I could!
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Friendship. Camaraderie. Fraternity. Brotherhood. All things that were missing in my life after retiring from active duty military. I use to be a lone wolf gamer, now I have this incredible network of good people. What my wife calls my online friends are real friends to me, and this community is something that I care about and want to give back to.
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Trust! I know when I get a message from one of my DoD buds I can trust that I'm gonna have a good time. Not be intimidated and have a successful time playing. On the rare occasion that I get to play. The DoD group put together a trustworthy bunch of dudes that are both alike in as many ways as they are different. We all have different jobs and back grounds but we all share the fact that we balance are "fun and relaxing" time with work and family. PS I read your interview in Gameinformer KP, very awesome man. Great job.
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I'm an older guy....well in age not in spirit... (49) and a father to two young ones... (waited for the right woman) I have always been a casual gamer....and like to play the same way. Now don't get me wrong when I say casual because I don't like to lose so I try hard to always complete a quest, but it usual takes me longer because I'm more laid back. This clashes with most folks playing style so I never really play allot of Online.....I hate to let a team down due to my style. My first positive "Clan" based experience happened with Chromehounds and I met a great group of guys who felt the best thing about playing the game was to have fun. We became close friends online and IRL. Even to this day we hang out on the weekends having cookouts and reliving our past glories. Fast forward to Destiny....I loved the idea of the game and was worried an old fart like me would have a hard time fitting in with a younger crowd......I almost didn't buy it but read an article about the DoD and thought man .....this is just what I need....I'm glad I got the game and joined this group. In so many ways I have been helped in the game and with answers to all those questions dads have on solving the issues that come from raising children. Along the way I found some more people to add to my list of family.....folks that I would drop what I was doing to be there for them. The DoD represents all that I believe in, Friendship, Compassion, and Honor.....I Love this game and this group. Sorry for the novel. :) See you star side, Pappy
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At first when I got this game I played alone a lot. Knowing how most games are full of pissed off 10 year old children struggling through their ball dropping experience I didn't socialize much. That crap gets tiring too quick for me. I saw this group after the bungie headliner and took a look. Was skeptical at first but after gaming with a couple dads realized this is one of the best gaming groups I have seen. It's been gaming buddies that don't discriminate because I'm a father and still game, no childish bs, and to top it all off we all have kids and don't flip when a quick poosplosion afk happens. I am grateful to have a group where fathers are helping fathers to be better and have fun in the mean time.
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Hey I'm sorry to have joined but I had experienced so much with this group I wanted to say something about it,I'm a 15 year old guy that likes to game and all that but a couple of weeks ago I did a raid with a full dads of destiny team,they took me through it and the whole time they were encouraging respectful non mean or cruel people,they didn't care about my age or anything they just wanted to help me out cause they're great guys!i will leave now I just wanted to put what an amazing and encouraging group you guys are,to your members and non members,now I'll leave since in not a dad(yet) but I felt like you guys needed to know that
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When I first started playing destiny I had no idea this group existed and pretty much levelled up on my own knowing very little about the game I still don't know how I discovered this group,think it was through the destiny app I posted in the new player thred and never looked back Did my very first VoG raid with the Euro clan and what a great experience that was I thought I was being a bit childish playing Xbox games until I discovered dads in the same boat as me This group means everything to me All the guys are fantastic and always willing to share the wealth of they're experience
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Hi Kp and all, I have been playing Destiny for awhile now, when I have time after work and a few runs through the weekend, usually when most of Family is asleep, except for my Son who is an avid Steam and PS Gamer. Been pretty much a loner, except for Strikes. Been looking to join a group and after reading the DoD posts, thought I would drop in ... DoD sounds like what I have been looking for (sounds like a song ...). Have a good Day and a Week ! DH
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Im not in this clan but its sounds cool im not a dad but im the only one in my family that has a job and im supporting them in anyway working 6 days a week trying to make a better life for my family but i know someday ill be in this clan Keep up the good work guys!
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I had no idea what I was getting myself into that September afternoon when I picked up Destiny; only one friend played and our times were off. I somehow managed to grind my way to 26 and max out both subclasses on my hunter and found my way to DoD, a group I had already been interested in prior to the games launch. Once here I found a clan and thought I had plugged myself in. Turns out it was the beginning. My first raid team was put together in October, I had answered a thread in our Foxtrot forum as to why I hadn't been in the VoG. We met on a Tuesday exchanged brief greetings and dove into the madness that was the Vault. We died. A lot. We laughed even more. It took us several weeks to get that first clear but we eventually pulled it off and the feeling of elation was real and we were also really hooked. This game had begun it's grip on us and we were merely along for the ride. I remember wanting more of a challenge from the VoG and my group encouraged me to find a HM raid to try it out; I returned here to the main DoD page here at b.net and found someone who has turned into a good friend and a regular raid buddy. Coincidentally our friendship has helped grow our alliance of players on LINE and cultivate more space for DoD. This is a community, a place where I have made real and lasting friendships with men I'm proud to call my friend and raid partner. We share our ups and downs, shoot the breeze, and at the end of the day we try to have fun. My friends have given me the privilege of raiding, nightfalls, weeklies, and pvp events with their kids. I've helped guys through their first raid clears and their first HM clears, all because I enjoy this game and the company I get to share while I'm playing.
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Edited by jesterboom: 3/31/2015 2:14:07 PMKP, its the fact that we all have one OTHER thing in common. Perfect example: my son, potty training during crota. (@ 5:15) https://youtu.be/XGFDRqI288I
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There's been some amazing responses in this thread and it really hits home what this group is all about. Thank you for all those that have supplied their thoughts here I have so much respect for all of you. Keep the responses coming guys we want to hear what you have to say! :-) Kp
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Brotherhood. Struggle. Triumph. Just to name a few. I have met great people and made awesome friends along the way. As soon as I saw DoD I knew it would be where I would reside for the rest of my destiny days. When destiny first came out I had a four month old so I didn't have much time to spare. Things have changed a little bit now but the same great fiends still remain.
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Edited by TankOfTheFranks: 3/26/2015 5:01:53 PMI ran lone wolf n had no plans to join any group when I started playing destiny in sept. When I surfed bungies forums for the hell of it one day, I figuratively fell thru a rabbit hole n stopped when I saw the name of this group. W/o reading further I knew instantly that it would b a community for me. About 7 mos later now, I sometimes think I'm hosing a DoD friend when I can't generally help them (sponsibilities), then I'm reminded subtly in a mssg that its OK...."no worries"....."its cool"....."I understand".....n that is the supportive, the maturity, the strength in community I thought I was going 2 be a part of.
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So, I basically stopped playing video games when my son was 3 months old. I didn't pick it back up until 8 months later when I picked up a ps4 and destiny. A week after that I found DoD. With a one year old son crawling around it was incredible to find a group of guys in the same boat. All of us trying to balance family, work and gaming. I was actually also new to psn since I played on the Xbox 360 for the previous 7 years. It was awesome to find guys that understood that I had to go "right now" even though we were in the middle of something. I honestly think it helped my wife be more okay with me gaming. This group provides the flexibility that reduces the strain on other areas of our lives caused by gaming. It's been great! Thank you to all of the cool guys in this group! Stay [b]awesome![/b]
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Hi there. I applied for this clan today because I'm preparing to be a dad. No one knows it yet, except a few people , but we are trying for 6 months now. Would be cool to play with dads who know what I'm going trough atm. And when it finally happens. I think I will have a lot of support.
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I have been a member for a few weeks now. I've met one or two people on here so far. I'm glad to be a part of this group. My son is 2 years old, the day he was born was the happiest day of my life. It changed my life forever. It made me who I am today. I take pride in being a father. Just seeing him smile makes my day. I look foward to meeting more dad's through this group. I'm on eastern time and play everynight after the wife and little one go to bed. Family first, gaming Second! A quick question...how would I set Dads of destiny ad my Playstation clan?? If it's possible. look forward to hearing from anyone willing to Get down on raids, nightfall or anything else.
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I've been a member of dod for quite awhile. I've made some great friends here and have had some great times. Dod represents too many things to say. But I will say this, dod is the best clan with some of the best people. Its a place where we can talk about our family or cars or guns or gaming. There is always someone here. A place while gaming you can make a mistake and not feel like you will get kicked out. Everyone just has a good laugh and you try again. Thnx for this clan sir. You have my love.
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Family comes first. I have made some good friends in DoD. It's nice and funny how right before a raid a member can fall asleep next to there kid and no one gets mad or upset. Or even myself fall asleep during a raid because of my son tiring me out and no one gets mad. DoD understands the beauty, fun and the struggles of being a parent. continue to give advice and encouragement to your fellow DoD.