Sons/Daughters of Destiny

Does anyone here have kids who play Destiny? My son plays and we've been trying to figure out how to get him hooked up with some people in his age range that may be able to raid. He can hold his own in PVE and excels at PVP. Quick story, when IB first came around he looked at the bounties. He selected the MVP bounty that automatically levels you up to rank one with IB if you are the MVP (highest point total for the whole match). He said he wanted to get that one done and out of the way. But he's a slacker and didn't get it until his second match. Missed on the first match by five points. I don't even grab that bounty because it winds up taking up a slot for, like, ever. I'm posting here first because I'm cautious of getting my son involved in too much info sharing online due to some wackos out there. I prefer to work with people that seem to be similar minded to me about gaming and also expect/understand if some here prefer some kind of screening process before letting their kids game with mine. Any other suggestions/advice would be appreciated. Thank you.