originally posted in:TFS The Floods Sanctuary
Like some (most) of you here, I'm still a virgin at 18. Some of you are younger and others are older. However, I believe that if we do not acquire girlfriends soon, we're going to wind up in a trap. Allow me to explain.
Obviously when you're young, you're really horny and stuff. And yes, this does apply to girls even though most try to hide it. And obviously at a young age, very few girls would actually want a baby and a lot would like to enjoy sex better so would be up for going on the pill so you wouldn't need to wear a condumb.
Now, when you get older, this may seem like it could be the same situation but there is a much larger chance of a girl springing their trap. Their biological clock will be ticking so as they get older, they're more likely to want a baby. So as you get older, you're more likely to get with a girl the same age as you. You may want to experience sex in it's purest form and suggest the pill. Now, this give her a perfect chance. She can tell you that she's taken it but hasn't. Next thing you know, bam! She's pregnant. And you're in a sticky situation. She's basically milked you for what she wants and you're more obliged to stay with her. If you don't, you're still going to have a kid out there.
So there's a depressing thing for you. The older you get while still being a virgin, the less time you're going to have to enjoy young sex where the girl won't want to get preggers.
How depressing
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You all seem to regard Women as some form of predator, rather than as Human beings. My deepest sympathies for your misconception.
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So...why is this on the destiny forums. That's all I want to know right now
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What. If it's a girlfriend or friend with benefits whom you know and trust, rely on the pill. If it's a one night stand or a new girl, use a condom. That's all.
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22 and still a virgin but im not upset about it. I could have popped my cherry but that would mean lowering my standards. And that is not right, im looking for a girl i connect with first. As im a master of friend zoning my self so kinda screws you over for a couple of years.
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What if I'm.... Elmo... Wearing a fedora and 420 blazing it?
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17. Virgin. Forever alone :(
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34 here and I can say from experience every girl I've had sex from age 24 and up was on the pill and nothing ever happen. There is more women than you think that don't want a child with some guy they've only known for a few months or even a year or two.
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then wear a condom idiot
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I'm 13 lol .-.
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Incidentally as a university student who tried juggling a serious relationship with studies last year... It's hard. I ended up not doing as well as I should have done because of it. Hard to focus on an essay when you've just had a massive argument with someone you love to pieces and you're distraught as a result. Or even just day to day distractions like constant sex and dates. Even now after we've broken up she still gets in my head sometimes, lol. Just stick to casual sex or wait until after studies. Or don't let yourself get too close/attached (personally I find that difficult.)
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I think u have to much time to think about this...go do something like I don't know chase a girl? Second off if your still a virgin why are u worried about babies? U have to have sex to have kids first.
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You worry too much, mate.
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Who needs sex when you have Shrex?
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Easier to get clipped m8. Plus, it's reversible. Go and get yourself a vasectomy and you won't have to worry about knocking a woman up when you lose your virginity at the tender age of 32.
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No pregnancy from gay sex. Just saying.
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Bean, have you banged Yvonne Strahovski yet?
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Wait till marriage .... It's hard but it's worth it.
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Thank you for your wise words, I never thought about this and now I am going to go and look for a gf super fast!!!! :D
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Hmm.. I lost mine to an older more experienced girl.. Great times..
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When we were trying to get my friend to lose his virginity, we would have house parties & introduce the roommates, I'm (name), that's Dave, that's Andy & that's Seabiscuit. That would prompt the why do you call him Seabiscuit to which we would reply that it was because he was hungry like a horse. Took 3 parties & then it was gone.
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The time it took you to write this, you could have gotten a prostitute. Or mail order bride.....
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Stay clear of women, finish school, get a killer career going, buy all the cars/boats/planes/etc you want and then find one who only wants your money. Generally speaking, gold diggers don't want to have children unless they feel the need to trap you in a relationship. Same can be said for young women. Skip all the relationship crap and get rich. Then 'hire' the pool boy for life. All jokes aside; I'm almost 40 with a wife and kids. I've managed to pull together a pretty fair living and wouldn't trade my family for anything. If I could do it all over again I would have stayed clear of relations until after college, didn't meet my wife until then anyhow. High school/college relations are nothing but a big distraction and now I'll probably never get my own G6.
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Do it before 6 years old duh didint hit puberty so can't u know
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Just go buy a hooker... I mean "escort".
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I dont need another sexual partner, i have billions already