New to group

I'll freely admit Destiny is pretty much my first FPS game, and I have no pvp or group experience, but this grandma is willing to learn. I'm really enjoying the game, but seeing my body fly through the air every five seconds in the cruicible is rather humiliating. While there is always the chance that somebody might slip on my guts in there, I don't think that's really the purpose. Lol. I recently got my Xbox One, so I don't know anybody on there yet, and trying to do the harder parts of the game alone seems to just up my body count. I play quite a bit, but it's not on a firm schedule since kids and grandkids like my attention sometimes (imagine that!). Lvl 26 warlock Lvl 24 hunter