VOG noob

Been playing a month now. I mainly play with my son, as such dont have too many friends to call for raids etc.I had one rather confusing experience on VOG hard it was the final checkpoint and I was kicked within seconds. I really need to to start at the start and am just looking either for others in a similar postion, or some kind patient, folk who would being willing to help an old dog learn some new tricks. All the best.