Why does this bother people? When it happens to me I just dont care, I mean thats what it is meant to do... piss you off and get you off your game. Back in halo this pissed me off, but then I came to the realization that it is exactly what the enemy team wants. So you need to take the stick out of your ass, and not care. If you do, your game will degrade and you will fall into a psychological trap.