My mom would make me go get her slipper just to beat me with it if I acted out. Then I turned 17 and she stopped but now she just yells a lot... which is worse. All you gotta do is deal with it, go by their rules and get a job so you can move out when possible so you can make your own rules. In the end they are your parents and they only do what they think is best. You have to love 'em because no matter what they will always love you.