Wow you got slam dunked on by Teddy Btw I have a kid I understand the family part =( I would take Teddys advice an find a different hobby if you can't squeeze in time after you lay your kids down at night. Then while your girlfriend is in the shower or wife, use that time to crank out a couple of matches of IB. I'm super sorry But I know you have a super crazy schedule so take up something different