This, I think people who game are in general great people. It is also a haven for people who are socially awkward for one reason or another. Some of these people are equally great, and just get stressed in crowds or putting themselves out there. Some people literally can't handle interaction for whatever reason, and come off as dicks. I don't think the people hitting on or demeaning women mean to be dicks, it's just what they've been conditioned to see as acceptable