It's called "Affirmative Action" you dingus. We all know that there are too many men in the typical raid group. Line up the average raid team and it's 6 straight white men. It's in the interests of any group to select a female player over a male player because that is the inclusive thing to do. Adding in her, clearly straight, boyfriend is an immediate reduction in the diversity of the group. It would be much more betterer to add in a trans black woman or just about anyone else. Get used to it. This is the way the world works now. And if you don't agree then you are just a racist sexist misogynistic hate monger who shouldn't be allowed to speak on the internet or to breed or live.