Join a clan! I play a lot, but I definitely don't take the game seriously. I mostly play solo, but being in a clan makes it much easier to connect with other folks with your attitude. I've done the raid once, but with 5 guys from my clan who had all done it before. They were great: told me where to go & what to do but were incredibly patient. It's also handy for the weekly heroic & Nightfall strikes. Those are too hard for me to do solo, but now there's always someone looking to run through them. Seriously. If you're on PS4, look us up. Sentinels of the Future.