In a sense it cam be. What you don't realize is that the "crazed jihadist" armies ate made up of regular joes who fight the war for their leaders. It's the same thing as here. So if wars, by and by, are fought by people who don't create the wars, why should there be wars in the first place? Therefore if someone doesn't want to add to that problem, why are they a coward? I have the utmost gratitude for those who decide to fight, but I also have respect for those who choose to not fight for the right reasons. Defending your home turf however is a whole different story.